FAQ

The three pillars of tantra are breath, sound and movement. We will go through the breathing technique before the session. Besides that, all you have to do is relax and enjoy the experience.

I will welcome you into the space, and we’ll have a conversation about the session, how the technique works, and the intention you want to manifest in your life. Afterward, you’ll take a shower to cleanse your energy, and following a connection ritual, we will begin the massage

In the tantric tradition man (Shiva) and woman (Shakti) meet on the same level. As our massages are received naked, they are also given naked. It's about closeness, discovery, feeling moved. I see nudity as something natural and beautiful, free of embarrassment and offensiveness

You will receive a holistic tantric massage that provides a sensual and erotic experience, but it is not an invitation to a sexual exchange. This allows you to explore your physical sensations in a new way, free from expectations and objectives.

An erection during the massage is welcome as it is a sign of sexual energy circulating freely

It’s not important whether you have an erection or not. In fact, multiple sessions may help improve erectile dysfunction over time.

My massages are non-specific, and focusing solely on achieving orgasm can sometimes make it more difficult to reach it. During the session, try to observe and experience what is happening in the moment. Often, expectations, pressure, control, and fear can influence the experience. With the de-armouring tools trauma and blockages can be removed and rigidity, numbness and pain can give place to pleasure with time.

I'm uncomfortable with my body and feel embarrassed about being touched. How should I handle this?

Cleanliness and hygiene is key in this type of massage. My premises are cleaned and disinfected after every use. Before and after the massage I thoroughly wash my hands and gloves will be used during the prostate massage

Your weight and figure are irrelevant to my massages. I focus on connecting with the beauty and essence of each person, touching both body and soul. The massage aims to improve body image and self-confidence, helping you feel more positive and happy with your body. If you prefer to go progressive in the journey I'd recommend you to try the clothes on massage first.

There are towels, body care products and a hairdryer available for you in my Temple. You can have a shower here before and after the massage.

I have treated a number of clients who experienced a sexual abuse at some stage in their life. In many cases the traumatic event causes their energy system freezes and all the memories of the traumatic event are suppressed. A person who suppressed sexual trauma in their bodies is unlikely to enjoy sex or experience full orgasms, though they may have no idea why this is. Through the treatment sesiones the client will experience the return of feelings, for everything that was not felt when the trauma occurred will be felt physically and emotionally as part of the healing process.

Loss of libido, self-harming, submissive behaviours, self-blaming, sexually shutting down, aggression, violence, destructive behaviours, blaming others, controlling behaviours, depression, anxiety, suicidal behaviours.

Parents separation or divorce, change from breastfeeding to bottle feeding, accidents and injury, sexual, physical and phychological abuse, medical examinations, operations, circumcision, exposure to a natural and man made disasters, death of a loved one.